Sexual Disarmoring Therapy

Almost everyone on earth has some kind of unconscious uneasiness about sex, pleasure or intimacy. We call this Sexual Armoring. The causes of armoring can be vast but it is a way where the body tries to protect itself from traumas and it shows up as protection of one of our basic human need – sex and intimacy.

Sexual armoring comes from past negative experiences. Acute emotional traumas such as the death of a loved one, a bad breakup, witnessing the divorce of parents can cause a person to start putting his guard up. It is during these times when the person starts to feel human attachments hurt too much or love hurts too much and then unknowingly cocoon himself with armoring.

Cumulative emotional traumas such as the day to day grind of reality, family dysfunction, stressful work environment, financial stress can result in armoring as well. Cultural attitudes that repress expressions of sexuality or Hero Complex culture where illusions of perpetual victory cause us to be afraid to admit failure, defeat, feeling depressed or vulnerable prevents us from surrendering to our authentic feelings and natural reflexes. These are also the reasons leading to armoring.

Physical traumas like surgeries and accidents can have a mental traumatic effect on the body which can also result in armoring.

Typical causes for Armoring:

-acute emotional trauma

-cumulative emotional trauma

-cultural repression

-physical trauma

Effects of Armoring:

The sexual armoring can present as tightness, lack of mobility and dissociation at areas affected. These sexual anxieties interfere with the flow of life energy down the vertical centre of the body and they can  have many physical and mental heath implications.

Sometimes the armoring can manifest itself in peculiar ways. Example: people who simultaneously armor the abdominal and pelvis area adopt a horrible standing posture with a retracted pelvis. Severely armored individuals unconsciously stand in this way to prevent themselves from feeling pleasure or any kind of emotional sensation.

A person may sexual armoring has a low sense of self worth, self love and lack of inner tranquility. Also a person heavily armored may be inhumane, authoritative and lack morality. Examples of such people are Hitler and the cruel kings in history where due to sexual armoring, they are incapable of love and incapable of loving themselves and they will rather repress and destroy the world around them.

Benefits of Sexual Disarmoring Therapy:

-        Regain sexual libido and pleasure

-        Increase in self worth, self love and self respect

-        Improvement in human relationships

-        Experience more inner peace and happiness