Bazi Fengshui Series: Red Matchmaker Star

As mentioned before, in Bazi or the Four Pillars of Destiny, Stars refer to bodies of energy or Qi that are activated when they interact or in contact with other bodies of energy or Qi. They are also known as Auxiliary Stars.

In the previous post, we understand what is Peach Blossom Star. This star comes in many forms and Salty Pool, Peach Blossom and Red Matchmaker are some of the stars in Bazi related to love, romantic emotions, sexual desires, attractiveness, relationships and also talents, intelligence and good appearance.

Read more about Salty Pool Star here.

Characteristics of red matchmaker star

The Red Matchmaker Star is all about love and to fall in love with. People can be madly in love with someone, even if it turns out in suffering and sorrow but it doesn’t mean that he/she is the right one or that marriage is a smooth path. The Star just means that the person will fall in love and is open to marriage.

The Red Matchmaker Star is a beneficial star when the element is favorable and can signify luck and harmony in relationships and a beneficial marriage.

Health

The Red Matchmaker Star is generally a positive star bringing about positive and fulfilling relationships.

However for women, when this star is near to Seven Killings, it may about Stockholm syndrome in which the person may feel affection for or develop attachment to the abuser in the relationship, try to help the abuser, distrusting or being angry towards those trying to help and feeling of powerlessness.

SOLUTIONS TO BALANCE red matchmaker STAR

Acupuncture

Acupuncture along the Conception Vessel Meridian with Ren 4 (Guanyuan) acupoint especially will stabilise the sexual energy. Acupoint Yin Tang is another acupoint that can open perspectives for good relationships, thinking not just about ownself but for the other party in a marriage. Acupoint Dan Zhong can open the heart for deeper connections.

Herbs

Herbal medicines such as Lotus Seed nourishes the Heart, Red Dates improves fertility, brings harmony and happiness into one’s life, These are all required for a healthy relationship within a marriage and the ability to love and be loved.

Bazi analysis

Analysis of the entire natal chart of a person can reveal what other elements in the chart that can help to adjust the temperature or in other words balance the elemental constitution of the person. Yearly, monthly and even daily analysis of the interaction of the natal bodily elements with the environmental elemental changes can give profound awareness of how to ride on the right timing to balance the person through behaviours, activities, acupuncture and herbal medicine treatments.

Fengshui audit

Changes to the living environment of the person with multiple Salty Pool Stars and water element can affect the personality and traits of the person. This is especially so when the bedroom of the person can have its rebalancing done with Fengshui techniques.